you are perfect..

I know some people feel sometimes that they aren’t good enough. Maybe they let themselves down, or someone they loved left them for someone else. Whatever it might be, the negativity they feel is so not needed. They might try to cover it with drugs or alcohol. Go out and find someone to bone and tell them how great and hot they are to make them feel better. Spend money on something they don’t need, make a drastic change to their appearance or some other ‘high’ they can get. 

I don’t judge, I am all for quick fixes..but as long as it is in a healthy way. As long as these people know, no matter how bad they feel, that it’s not the end. They will wake up the next morning and still open their eyes. They will breathe and walk and live. Life goes on, and you are stuck with whatever happens to you, but you know what? Do you want the truth? I am not just bull-shitting when I say this..IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT.

You are perfect, you do what you do for yourself, that’s the only person you should look out for, the only person you should be trying to please. Fuck everyone else. Don’t wallow in oh, 

“I could have done this.”

“If I just wouldn’t have changed”

“I just don’t get why he or she doesn’t want me”

Are you serious?

Fuck em..you know how amazing you are, you spend time with yourself. You know how amazing you are to converse with and how great you look when you see yourself in the mirror.  You know how there is NO ONE out there like you and for anyone who doesn’t see that is fucking wasting your time!! “Just another speed-bump on your way to success,” as I once said. If you aren’t riding this train then get the fuck out the way. You ain’t got time to waste on bullshit taking up your energy and stressing you out. They aren’t good enough for you. Keep looking, because you deserve your perfect mate. Never settle. There is someone out there looking for you. Someone that understands you and won’t give you shit about how you live your life and try to bring you down.  They will support you, give you space, but be there when you need embrace. 

I always feel so sad for people that just don’t get it. It might hurt at first and make you question who you are and how amazing you think you are but you have to stay positive, always. Shit is going to happen but THE ONLY THING YOU CAN CONTROL IS THE EFFECT THOSE THINGS HAVE ON YOU, that’s it. Will you let it eat you, make you do things that you will regret the next morning? Or do you have the maturity and strength to turn it around and make you focus, get the hell out that rain cloud!!!, get out in the world and GET YOURS!

Life is too short to waste any minute being down..you ARE perfect, I know you know it, you just got to believe it